If there is one phrase that is old and tiring it’s men saying, “You’re intimidating.” This is not in reference to the woman who blows the opposite sex off at the bar, or the beautifully stunning one who is difficult to approach. Instead, this reference is to the woman that has her stuff all the way together. Somewhere in her complete package, she has managed to intimidate the men around her. Here are five things every intimidating woman wants her future beau to know:
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The trials, tribulations, successes, self-expression and stubbornness are all a part of her story. Although she may not look like what she’s been through, her life boasts a history that would surprise many. She is exactly the type of woman that a man would want on his arm because she knows how to hold on. Her man might be intimidated at first, but once he really gets to know her, the new “I” word might be “intrigued.”
2. She will inspire him to be the best version of himself.
The same woman who intimidates her man can also inspire him and keep him on his toes. Her work ethic, drive, passion, and character will help him strive to be all that he can be.
3. She doesn’t need a man, she wants one.
Ms. Intimidation makes her own money, carries her own bags, and has her own friends. She indulges in various hobbies, and is extremely motivated and passionate about life. She knows what she wants and who she is, and truly believes that no man is out of her league. She wants to be able to trust her man with her vulnerability and find a true partner in him for life.
4. She is pretty normal.
Like anyone else, the intimidating woman enjoys downtime, a good laugh, watching Netflix, and navigating through social media like everyone else. The woman who intimidates has the same fears, hopes, and dreams as anyone else.
5. Give her a chance, and she will give you a lifetime.
The woman who has heard she’s intimidating still has fairytale dreams and feelings; but she won’t show all her cards up front. This woman wants love, but won’t settle. Time is not to be wasted so shooting it straight is all they know to do. If Mr. Right is ready to give of himself wholeheartedly, she’s ready to make him a happy man.
The “intimidating woman” is more than willing to respect, admire and love anyone who is worthy. If the above descriptions sound like a page right out of your book, be sure that you’re sending the right messages when dating and keeping yourself open to love. Like we said, every intimidating woman has a story. Don’t hesitate to save yours for the perfect reader.
Written By: Joyrina Hunter