Me, Myself & I…Then I’ll Be Ready for the Right Guy

We often fantasize about our ideal man. Sometimes, we may even question if we could really handle finally meeting Mr. Right. If being ready for Mr. Right is something that consumes you, don’t look any further. Below is the hidden secret on being relationship ready.

Surprisingly the solution is simpler than you might have imagined it would be. Before you can love someone else properly, you have to learn how to truly identify with who you are and then wholeheartedly fall in love with yourself. After all, healthy relationships can only occur when two people are comfortable with themselves in addition to each other. When you take time out to love yourself first, it allows you to work on personal issues. Not resolving those issues could have a significantly negative impact on the relationship.

So how exactly does one determine if their self-love is up to par? For starters, are you happy? If you aren’t happy with yourself and the way your life has been going then maybe it’s time to consider what role you play in that and how to turn everything around for the better. Have you ever considered that some of the things you go through happen because of what you allow? When you understand the significance of loving yourself you’ll be able to easily walk away from anything that doesn’t help you grow, bring you joy, or motivate you.

Women who love themselves properly aren’t concerned with finding Mr. Right because they know that when you focus on bettering yourself, men take notice. A relationship doesn’t make you complete, nor does it validate your womanhood. Those are things that only experience and genuine alone time can provide. It’s easy to get caught up on trying to come across the right man, but maybe you should consider if you’re the right kind of woman first.

By Nyia Moore